Together We Are Better

There are many things that a husband can do to stay involved in their child's life. One of the best things that can prepare a husband and wife for this is for them to Learn and Discover together. When a husband and wife and working together in the things that they are doing each day, it will make it easier to carry throughout the marriage as opposed to if they weren't doing things together. This will establish a good pattern of equality throughout the marriage. When issues arise, it is crucial to be humble and teachable to suggestions so that together couples can improve their marriage. Another important thing is to keep the husband involved with appointments before and after the baby is born. When he is there, he is able to learn and understand more of what is going on whether it is thoughts, feelings, concerns, etc. When the child is born, I think that it is super important for the husband to be there and as involved as possible. Even though the woman is giving birth, there are many things that the husband can be doing to support her and help things run smoother. After the child is born, it is common for tasks to increase and time between husband and wife to decrease. Couples need to make sure they are spending quality time together whenever possible. Another thing that the father can do is to make time to connect with the child. Whether it is coming home from work and playing with him/her, taking them to run errands, or doing whatever is available, this time together will strengthen their relationship and establish trust between them. When this healthy relationship is established early, it is more likely to carry on throughout life. 

Parenting is something that needs to be done together. It is crucial for both parents to connect with their children and stay involved in their lives. It is a very sacred responsilibility to raise God's children and it needs to be taken seriously. Every child deserves a mother and father that will love them and do their best to raise them righteously.